Designing for Real Life: How to Have a Chic Home and Kids
Let’s be honest: designing a stylish home when you have kids can feel like an impossible dream. Between sticky fingers, endless toys, and a constant rotation of sippy cups, it’s easy to think you have to put your design dreams on hold until the kids are older.
But here’s the truth: you don’t have to sacrifice style for practicality. With a few smart choices and a shift in mindset, it’s absolutely possible to create a home that feels beautiful and functions for family life.
Here’s how to design a chic, grown-up space that still works for your little crew.
1. Embrace the “Elevated Casual” Look
The secret sauce to designing with kids in mind is leaning into an elevated casual aesthetic. Think relaxed, lived-in, but still intentional. This allows you to use hard-wearing materials, soft furnishings, and practical layouts while still feeling pulled together.
Design tip: Look for pieces that feel timeless and tactile—linen slipcovered sofas, rounded-edge coffee tables, woven textures, and relaxed layered rugs are perfect for creating warmth and style without feeling precious.
2. Choose Materials That Can Handle It
Not all fabrics and finishes are created equal. When designing for kids, durability is key—but that doesn’t mean compromising on aesthetics.
Go-to materials we love:
Performance or washable fabrics (especially for sofas and dining chairs)
Textured or patterned rugs that hide stains
Wood with a natural or matte finish (dings and dents just add to the character)
Outdoor-grade materials used indoors (hello, wipeable)
3. Hide the Chaos in Plain Sight
Storage is your best friend—but it doesn’t have to scream “kids live here.” Built-in joinery, stylish sideboards, ottomans with hidden compartments, and oversized baskets can all hold the chaos while keeping your space looking chic.
Design tip: Create “zones” for kid stuff that can be easily tidied—like a corner of the living room with a soft rug and low shelves, or a designated drawer in the kitchen for colouring books and toys.
4. Keep the Colour Palette Calm
You don’t need to avoid colour, but sticking to a soft, earthy palette can help your home feel calm and cohesive—even if there’s a tornado of activity happening in it.
Think warm neutrals, soft greens, muted blush, and natural wood tones. These colours pair beautifully with kids’ items without making your space feel like a daycare centre.
5. Invest Where It Matters
You don’t need everything to be high-end, but investing in a few key pieces can elevate the whole space. A beautifully made dining table, a designer light fixture, or a custom piece of art can shift the energy of a room, even if the rest is Ikea and play mats.
Design tip: Focus on pieces that will grow with your family. A good quality dresser, for example, can transition from nursery to teen room to guest space.
6. Don’t Wait for “Someday”
The biggest myth in parenting and design? That you need to wait until the kids are older to have a beautiful home. You deserve to love your space now. Design isn’t about perfection—it’s about creating a home that reflects the season of life you’re in, while still making room for beauty, comfort, and you.
Final Thoughts
Designing a chic home with kids isn’t about hiding the fact that you have children—it’s about blending functionality with personality in a way that feels effortless and authentic. Your home can be full of crayons, creativity, and character—and still feel stylish.
Want help making it happen? That’s what we’re here for.